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    Default I'm stupid emotional

    And I hate it. I'm not a crier but today we dropped our boy off at college. I did really well not crying when saying goodbye. I even made the trip home dry-eyed.

    I just walked into his room to put something away and broke down.

    I hate this feeling. I know he's fine. I know we taught him how to take care of himself and be a good person.

    But I miss him.

    And I hate crying!

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    Aww, that's not stupid - you are just a mom who loves your kid. I'm sending HUGS for you.
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    It's not stupid at all! I did the same thing when we left our first son at college. Made it all the way home, went into his room and totally lost it! It's absolutely normal for a loving mom to do! With my other 4, I didn't even try to be brave - I promptly lost it in the car going home. The last was the worst!!
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    Your not stupid your feeling are normal.This adjustment can be harder for us than them sometimes.((Hugs)). I made my daughter call weekly,she hated that she had to do it but I needed to hear her voice and know she was ok without interrupting her .
    Joan

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    That's totally normal. When we took our son to college, I cried most of the way home (a 3 hour trip) and every time I fixed a meal that was one of his favorites, I cried. I was a mess for months! I still miss him and he is 39 now. Did pretty much the same thing with our daughter. You'll always be a mom even when your kids have left.
    Bec

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    I did OK until I got in the car. My husband planned the trip so that we went to Canada for a few days immediately after. After getting the cry out of my system in the car, was ok. Fast forward 4 yrs when dropping my daughter off, she decided to argue with us about something and stormed out the car. Hubby's comment was "she sure made that easy". No tears shed.

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    I always told my daughters that the reason they were so hard to deal with during their teenage years was so that when they said, "I'm moving out!" I would be saying, "Good riddance!" but it never really worked. I think I should have done like my mom and had lots of kids over lots of years, so by the time I left home she had so many grandkids to take my place she probably didn't even know I was gone.
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    Not stupid at all, you are a loving mom who misses her child. I've been there. Hugs!!!!
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    Awww.... of course you miss him!

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    Default Re: I'm stupid emotional

    I hate to cry too. I know it's a good emotional release, but when I cry, My head throbs, my eyes get very red and puffy, my nose runs, I can't talk. It takes my face all day to get back to normal.
    I know people who can have a screaming crying fit, buckets of tears and the whole shebang. 5 minutes later, you can not tell they were crying. I envy that ability, somehow.
    Just take solace in the fact that your son is heading in a good path. Those tears would be so much more bitter if your son were heading to prison.

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