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    Well our life is about to change drastically and not for the better,my husband failed his PT test and will be chaptered out of the army. He was told today it would be anywhere from 1 to 4 months. Thats not enough time to find a house and jobs back on the mainland let alone come up with money to rent something! On top of that we have to pay to ship our 2nd car back.....to where we don't even know. We dont have anything in saving because we have given it to our kids at different times for different things always thinking we could make it up. We are so defeated at this point,we dont know what to do or where to start.
    Im so sick of things always being yucky,I just want a normal life! No drama no problems just for a little while!
    Another really bad thing about all this is theres a good chance we will have to get rid of our dogs and thats killing me.
    Anyway thanks for reading I just needed to vent,maybe ill go take a sleeping pill and sleep till saturday lol Dont take that wrong im not suicidal just tense .

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    It's gonna be all right Baby Seester......You know I have a feeling that this is going to turn into something really good.....I won't say out loud what I am thinking, but I'll let you know later what is was!!!
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    Just sending you a hug, Roxy. Sometimes life is just really hard.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hawaii Roxy View Post
    Well our life is about to change drastically and not for the better,.
    I know you don't want to hear this now, but take it from someone who has been through such upheavals -- things will get better, and in the end, you all will probably be better off. Something better IS around the corner. Believe it. Work towards it. You will find it.

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    Hang in there, blessing are around the corner. Do something just for you and just about you. Its ok to be a little selfish sometimes. Lets us be ready to tackle the rest
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    I'm so sorry, the Army has really changed. Hugs I feel for you, my husband is reenlisting right now and they have him jumping through hoops. Good luck and keep your head up

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    I'm so sorry to hear that! You will make it work, I know it. Just give it some time, you need to adjust to the very idea of it before you make plans.
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    (((((Roxy)))))
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    I'm so sorry to hear this Have you thought about a different area of the island and most of all do you want to stay here? I'm stuck myself because I don't have any family on the mainland to go to. I'd be a stranger in a strange land moving right now.

    Everyone thinks Hawaii is wow I would love to live there but in reality it's hard.

    What kind of dogs do you have?
    Last edited by Hulamoon; April 18th, 2014 at 03:39 AM.



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    Thanks everybody,and to Lori I dunno we are so in shock still and overwhelmed with "oh God now what" feelings. There is soooo much to think about and 4 months is simply not enough time to make any adjustments or plans all I can do is pray that answers present themselves and soon. This has literally knocked the breath out of me and right now Im going off fear .Im trying to clear my head and calm down

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