I think sometimes we don't realize how our surroundings can affect our moods. I was recalling this morning how after my separation and divorce from my first husband I just couldn't seem to get out of the "funk". Then I realized that my surroundings just weren't helping. Everything was from the "past"....a very unhappy past. I made an effort to start making a new "space", one which was "me" not "thee". One day I was walking through a large mall and in one of the windows I saw an "everyday" set of dishes and I started to smile. I didn't really "need" dishes. Lo and behold, the pattern was one my grandmother had and I felt like I was visiting and spending some of the cherished times I had with my grandfather. I had the store put them on lay away because I didn't have much money. It was one of those turn around moments in my life, every morning I could sit down, have a bowl of cereal and remember what a difference he made in my life because he loved me so much.
Just thought I'd share. Sometimes having things from the past with their cherished memories can so influence our lives in the present.
Just thought I'd share. Sometimes having things from the past with their cherished memories can so influence our lives in the present.
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