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    My family is so cruel

    They had Roberts services yesterday without telling me. For some reason I woke up this morning and remembered that our local paper lists free obituaries online. I scrolled down and there is was. Paddle out on June 9.

    I'm literally shaking right now and thinking how mean this was. Not one call to even ask me if I wanted to attend. I'm so hurt right now.
    🌺 Lorie

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    So very sorry for this pain - sending you hugs and prayers.

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      So sorry to hear you were treated that way. Sending prayers and hugs your way.

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        I'm so sorry for your pain. Wrapping you in lots of hugs. Hopefully soon things will mellow and you can find peace.
        Katrina


        “Nothing can dim the light which shines from within.”
        ― Maya Angelou

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          Unbelievable. This must have hurt you so much. I am so sorry.

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            OH those little (fill in with the first words/thoughts came into your mind), mine can't be posted here. How much abuse can you take? Hope you have an attorney because it does't look as if there will be smooth sailing for you from here on.

            Hope this helps.A HUG 4 U.JPG
            MissMay AKA May in Jersey

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              I'm so totally sorry to hear this, Lorie. I don't understand how family can do this to their own family, but I know it happens all the time. My prayers and hugs are with you. (((HUGS)))
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              Scottie Mom Barb

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                How awful!! I´m so sorry. Many hugs to you.

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                  I am so sorry your having to deal with this at such a difficult time in your life. I don't know what makes people so mean. Sending hugs and prayers to you.

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                    I'm sorry you are going through this. Why some people need to direct their hostility to certain targets is beyond me but it says so much more about their inability to negotiate their own emotions and feelings of guilt which they can't handle. There really is nothing we can or could do about it other then let it be a reminder that ultimately we need to just remain true to ourselves regardless of what world they chose to surround themselves in. Perhaps you can do something that has meaning for you, they don't have to know about it, they don't need to see it and they wouldn't acknowledge it even if it was in front of them like a billboard. And yes, it hurts but don't let it define who you are. You're a lovely person and it's their loss.
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                    When someone
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                    We're flexible like that.
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                      Wow, that is cruel! Lots of (((((((((HUGS))))))))) for you.


                      Beth
                      Happiness is a FULL bobbin!

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                        Originally posted by Carlie Wolf View Post
                        I'm sorry you are going through this. Why some people need to direct their hostility to certain targets is beyond me but it says so much more about their inability to negotiate their own emotions and feelings of guilt which they can't handle. There really is nothing we can or could do about it other then let it be a reminder that ultimately we need to just remain true to ourselves regardless of what world they chose to surround themselves in. Perhaps you can do something that has meaning for you, they don't have to know about it, they don't need to see it and they wouldn't acknowledge it even if it was in front of them like a billboard. And yes, it hurts but don't let it define who you are. You're a lovely person and it's their loss.
                        I second this. Sometimes tragedy brings out the worse in people. Come here and vent anytime, it helps to talk it out.
                        Vonnie

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                          I’m so sorry for the treatment the family has choosen to give you. Hugs and feelings of healing go to you.

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                            So sorry, Lorie. Wish I had some words of wisdom. I just don't understand people sometime. I think Carlie Wolf summed it well.

                            Big hugs going out to you.
                            "I'm putting together a list of 100 reasons why I am NOT relentless!" - Sue Heck, The Middle

                            Leonard: For God's sake, Sheldon, do I have to hold up a sarcasm sign every time I open my mouth?
                            Sheldon (intrigued): You have a sarcasm sign?

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                              My heart aches for you. It's almost incomprehensible that they would do that! But I know what it's like to have hurt feeling & problems surrounding funerals. It happened with my BIL (my 1st husb.'s fam.). He & his wife had sort of cut themselves off from the family. It ended up that his widow & fam. & friends in another town had their own service, then released the body for our fam. & friends to have our own service. It didn't help matters that the BIL took his own life, so there was all that to deal with, too.

                              May the Lord continue to help you as you travel these uncharted waters & work through things. Sending love & keeping you in my prayers.

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