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    Tired of life

    Well our life is about to change drastically and not for the better,my husband failed his PT test and will be chaptered out of the army. He was told today it would be anywhere from 1 to 4 months. Thats not enough time to find a house and jobs back on the mainland let alone come up with money to rent something! On top of that we have to pay to ship our 2nd car back.....to where we don't even know. We dont have anything in saving because we have given it to our kids at different times for different things always thinking we could make it up. We are so defeated at this point,we dont know what to do or where to start.
    Im so sick of things always being yucky,I just want a normal life! No drama no problems just for a little while!
    Another really bad thing about all this is theres a good chance we will have to get rid of our dogs and thats killing me.
    Anyway thanks for reading I just needed to vent,maybe ill go take a sleeping pill and sleep till saturday lol Dont take that wrong im not suicidal just tense .

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    It's gonna be all right Baby Seester......You know I have a feeling that this is going to turn into something really good.....I won't say out loud what I am thinking, but I'll let you know later what is was!!!
    ~Kathy~

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      #3
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      Just sending you a hug, Roxy. Sometimes life is just really hard.
      sigpicMiss Sheri

      For me, it's all about Love, . . . Always!

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        Originally posted by Hawaii Roxy View Post
        Well our life is about to change drastically and not for the better,.
        I know you don't want to hear this now, but take it from someone who has been through such upheavals -- things will get better, and in the end, you all will probably be better off. Something better IS around the corner. Believe it. Work towards it. You will find it.

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          #5
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          Hang in there, blessing are around the corner. Do something just for you and just about you. Its ok to be a little selfish sometimes. Lets us be ready to tackle the rest
          Karen
          Life is short - Live everyday to the fullest

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            #6
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            I'm so sorry, the Army has really changed. Hugs I feel for you, my husband is reenlisting right now and they have him jumping through hoops. Good luck and keep your head up

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              #7
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              I'm so sorry to hear that! You will make it work, I know it. Just give it some time, you need to adjust to the very idea of it before you make plans.
              ~ Anna ~

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                #8
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                (((((Roxy)))))
                Toni ... If I keep sewing long enough, will they make their own dinner?

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                  #9
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                  I'm so sorry to hear this Have you thought about a different area of the island and most of all do you want to stay here? I'm stuck myself because I don't have any family on the mainland to go to. I'd be a stranger in a strange land moving right now.

                  Everyone thinks Hawaii is wow I would love to live there but in reality it's hard.

                  What kind of dogs do you have?
                  Last edited by Hulamoon; April 18, 2014, 12:39 AM.
                  🌺 Lorie

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                    #10
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                    Thanks everybody,and to Lori I dunno we are so in shock still and overwhelmed with "oh God now what" feelings. There is soooo much to think about and 4 months is simply not enough time to make any adjustments or plans all I can do is pray that answers present themselves and soon. This has literally knocked the breath out of me and right now Im going off fear .Im trying to clear my head and calm down

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                      #11
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                      I'm sorry this has happened, but things happen for a reason. Time will tell what that reason is.
                      pat.

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                        #12
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                        This is unfortunate news! I'm with the other folks on here. Once you get over the shock you'll start working on your options. I'm sure you'll get this figured out. I hope you have friends or acquaintances in the military who can lend support. Are there military counselors who help folks with these problems? Certainly you're not the first to have experienced this problem. Hopefully, you'll get some advice that might help you decide what's best to do in your situation. Do they give you any kind of severance pay like they do in civilian life to help you?
                        Goodbye Europe! Hello California! Home sweet home.

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                          #13
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                          Just hang in there - something will work out. I know it doesn't seem like it's possible, but it will. And usually for the better.

                          Wouldn't it be better to sell the car and use the money to buy another one when you get here? Just thinking. I'm sure there are ways for you to keep the dogs, they are your babies.

                          Get some rest so that you will be able to think things through. When you are tired and stressed, it's hard to make good decisions, or even have a good outlook.

                          (((HUGS)))
                          Donna

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                            #14
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                            Wow, I didn't know the Army, or any branch of the gov't, could work that fast.

                            It does suck and I bet you are in a crappy mood right now. So many questions and no answers. Don't know what to tell you, but if you need help, we are just a forum post away. You know us, we can help if you need us.

                            ((( hugs )))

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                              #15
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                              My thoughts, best wishes and prayers are with you and your husband. ((HUGS)))
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