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    Hi every one just checking in and looking at all the goodies..life has been very hectic as of late..Still NOT smoking 4+ months now..still working out walking almost 6-7 miles a day now..down 48 pounds....but on the home front its stressful the DH has become insecure and very suspicious and I am about to have a meltdown...
    we have been married 6 1/2 yrs together almost 12...And he has questioned my 20 yr old as to why I am doing this..REALLY???? how about Im 40 and I want to see my grandchildren...
    Sorry didnt mean to vent but I really dont have anywhere else..My 20 yr old thinks I should leave if it continues but with a home involved its easier said than done...time will tell we are gonna sit down very soon....
    On a lighter not I will try to get a pic up soon...((HUGS)) my dear friends
    These things, I warmly wish for you-
    Someone to love, some work to do,
    A bit'o sun, a bit'o cheer.
    And a guardian angel always near.


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    (¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•Shannon

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    Hi Shannon, it's good to hear from you! Congrats on the no smoking and losing weight. Doing one or the other is hard enough, but doing both at the same time.....is awesome! I'm proud of you. I'm sorry that you are going through this with your hubby. I went through the same thing with my first husband. Every time I got my hair done, put nail polish on, or anything that made me "feel" better, I must have had a motive for doing it. I tried talking to him about it, but he only heard what he wanted to hear. You cannot let his insecurities stop you from doing what is good for you. If he knew that this was something that makes you happy, he should be happy for you. This is only going to make you a better person in the long run. You need to let him know that if you are not happy with yourself, that you can't be happy in other areas of your life. If he can't understand this, then maybe he has some issues of his own that he needs to work on to be happy.
    I wish you luck and will keep you in my prayers that the two of you can work this out.
    Keep up the good work and check back sooner than later!
    Cil
    A quilt is a blanket of love
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    • #3
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      (((Shannon)))) Sure have missed you. That is GREAT news, quitting smoking is a bear but walking it off is such a good benefit. What if you told him, I want to exercise so I live long enough to see grandchildren -- Why don't you join me?

      I've missed you and hope it get's better at home, that is sad he is not supportive of your Healthy habits!
      Debbie and the cats KayCee (16), Lucky Streak (11), and gods gift Sandia (8)

      RIP Bonnie (18) December 2014 We had 10 loving years before you went to see your previous Meow-Mom - tell her I love you too!

      Spread Sunshine with every thought, word and deed.

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        6 to 7 miles a day..........Wow, Shannon that is great! And Yay for you.........smoke free!

        You are an inspiration to others. I hope you can make your DH understand why this is so important for you.

        Wishing you the best.
        "I'm putting together a list of 100 reasons why I am NOT relentless!" - Sue Heck, The Middle

        Leonard: For God's sake, Sheldon, do I have to hold up a sarcasm sign every time I open my mouth?
        Sheldon (intrigued): You have a sarcasm sign?

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        • #5
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          Shannon congrats on your healthy life style, losing 48 lbs...WOW...that is great! Hopefully your husband will soon realize that you're doing this for your own self and just be happy for you. Genny
          TODAY IS A GOOD DAY...TO HAVE A GOOD DAY...Genny

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            You are doing amazing. I love that you are taking care of you. It is not uncommon for a man or a woman to become insecure when their spouse who normally puts themselves last learns that by putting themselves first they are taking better care of their family. You are ready to talk about it so I hope it all goes well for you.
            Lisa

            Please treat others as you would hope others would treat those you love.


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            • #7
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              First - Congrats Sharron, Smoke free for so long, lost so much weight and walking 6-7 miles a day! - You Rock Girl!

              Second - Ah, Men and their midlife crisis's! Tell him you've had one of your own when you realized if you continued smoking, etc. you wouldn't be here to enjoy growing old with him. That's from someone who is growing old with her DH, he is crabby at times but glad we both are here with and for each other.

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              • #8
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                Shannon, sounds like you are doing great! Don't let hubby get you down or try to sabotage your weight loss because he is insecure. Ask him if he won't join you, for the good of both of you.
                K is for Karen .....................Cremation - My last hope for a smokin' hot body.

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                T - is it TRUE?
                H - is it HELPFUL?
                I - is it INSPIRING?
                N - is it NECESSARY?
                K - is it KIND?


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                • #9
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                  Shannon, I am so proud of you. Tomorrow will be 4 months smoke free for me too. Going the opposite way with the weight though. Ahhh, the insecure DH. Let him know it is not about anything more than you getting healthy. If he thinks it is more than that, then he has a problem. Keep up the good work, and be happy for yourself.
                  Blankets wrap you in warmth, quilts wrap you in love

                  Marilyn......
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                    Congrats to you Marilyn at being smoke free for so long! You are also a Rockin' Gal!

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                    • #11
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                      Grats to both Shannon and Marilyn for being smoke free and sticking to it. A big grats to Shannon for losing that weight and getting healthy. Insecure hubbys...just let him know your doing it for him. so you can grow old together as May says.
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                      • #12
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                        Congrats on changing your life to this more healthy way. (My guilty conscience is just poking me as I write this.) You are truely an inspiration. I hope you can work things out with your hubby.

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                        • #13
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                          Good to hear from you, Shannon. Your accomplishments are amazing...keep up the good work. Sorry to hear of the stress in your home. Maybe things can work out if you can talk things out. We are here for you...
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                          Scottie Mom Barb

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                          • #14
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                            Funny you should say that about your husband. Just yesterday my husband was very insecure and I just flat out told him that if I was unhappy I would be GONE by now. Some men!!

                            I am glad you are smoke free. Some men just don't GET IT!!!!
                            Blessed are the children of the piecemakers for they shall inherit the quilts!

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                            • #15
                              Re: Hi all just checking in

                              I was just thinking about you and how you were doing.....I am almost three months smoke free and still not gaining any weight and could use a few pounds but not allot.....I am so proud of you and please come here to vent...we are here for you!

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