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May 4th, 2015, 04:36 PM
My sister called a little while ago... She told me that her son, Ben, and his wife, ?Carolina, have lost the baby they were expecting...

I'm not certan, but I think Carolina....whi is from Columbia....went to the doctor alone, and there was no heartbeat. I can't think of anything worse.

Ben and Carolina have two little boys....9&7..... so they do know they can have healthy babies, This was a much wanted baby.... We were all so excited and happy for them. They are a such a sweet couple, and their boys were so excited to be welcoming a new brother or sister.... How will they tell the boys?

Becky...my sister...said it was so awful to hear Ben sobbing over the phone. She will be going to them as soon as she can... Carolina's own mom is in Columbia, of course.

My heart is broken for Ben & Carolina...

Jean Sewing Machine
May 4th, 2015, 04:40 PM
That is very sad! So sorry for your family's loss.

Snip Snip
May 4th, 2015, 04:42 PM
I am so sorry for this loss for your family.

Iris Girl
May 4th, 2015, 04:46 PM
So sorry for your family's loss.

May 4th, 2015, 04:54 PM
Sandy, I, too, am so sorry for your family"s loss. Sending you hugs!

May 4th, 2015, 05:10 PM
Sending hugs to you and Ben and Carolina and your sister. Sorry she had to face this alone in the doctor's office.

May 4th, 2015, 05:38 PM
So so sorry for their loss.

May 4th, 2015, 05:41 PM
That is so sad. My heart and prayers go out to you, your sister and her family.

May 4th, 2015, 05:52 PM
I'm so sorry about this sad news. It is heartbreaking. I know many of us here will hold them up with prayer and concern.

May 4th, 2015, 06:01 PM
Oh Sandy, so sorry for their loss.

Amy R
May 4th, 2015, 06:04 PM
I am so sorry for you and your family. Will be praying.

May 4th, 2015, 06:05 PM
Such sad news. I am so sorry for you and your family.

May 4th, 2015, 06:28 PM
So sorry for your lost. There is another angel in heaven now.

May 4th, 2015, 06:37 PM
Sandy, such sad news for your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.

May 4th, 2015, 06:45 PM
Terribly sad.

Sandy Navas
May 4th, 2015, 06:57 PM
It is never easy to lose a child, no matter when or how.

May 4th, 2015, 07:05 PM
This is very sad. My heart goes out to your family.

May 4th, 2015, 07:18 PM
So sorry for your family's loss.

May 4th, 2015, 07:23 PM
Heartbreaking news.

(((HUGS))) for all.

May 4th, 2015, 07:41 PM
Oh my goodness! Can't even imagine their heartbreak tonight. Prayers for that sweet little family.

May 4th, 2015, 08:07 PM
Hugs and prayers to your family in this sad time.

May 4th, 2015, 08:21 PM
I am so sorry Sandy. My son and daughter-in-law learned the passing of their little one the same way. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May 4th, 2015, 08:28 PM
Aww, so sorry. Prayers for the family.

May 4th, 2015, 08:30 PM
Prayers for you family. I am so sorry. For Carolina, what horrible news to learn by herself.

Grandma Nan
May 4th, 2015, 08:31 PM
Very sorry to hear about your loss.

May 4th, 2015, 08:33 PM
So sorry for the heartbreaking loss!!

Unfortunately, I know first-hand how terrible that is. Both my sister and I have infertility problems and that happened to my sister not once, but twice. The first was her first pregnancy a few years ago, then she had my niece 18 months ago with some help from the Drs, and then happened again last August. She is now 6 months pregnant with her fourth pregnancy and thank God this one is a keeper :-).

Sending lots of thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

May 4th, 2015, 08:46 PM
So sorry to hear your news, Sandy.

Cathy F
May 4th, 2015, 10:18 PM
Sandy I'm very sorry for you loss.

May 4th, 2015, 11:26 PM
Oh, Sandy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be praying for your sweet family.

May 4th, 2015, 11:51 PM
Sandy, I am so very sorry for your family and for your loss. Will say prayers for all of you.

May 4th, 2015, 11:54 PM
So sorry for their loss, that is a very difficult to go for a routine checkup and be informed that you have lost the baby when you had no idea there was a problem. Prayers for all of you to get through this very sad loss.

Carrie J
May 4th, 2015, 11:54 PM
Such heartbreaking news, Prayers for you, your Sister, Ben and Carolina. Hugs Sandy, so very sorry for their loss!

May 5th, 2015, 01:00 AM
Keeping all in my thoughts and prayers...GB

May 5th, 2015, 01:15 AM
Sandy i am so sorry for their loss,please tell them we are sending prayers their way.This can be such a traumatic event,I hope the boys will be ok as well as the parents.

May 5th, 2015, 01:28 AM
I am so sorry for you all. Sending caring thoughts your way.

May 5th, 2015, 06:18 AM
That same situation happened to Joe and me. We went in for the first ultrasound and the fetus wasn't alive. It was quite traumatic. I was actually pregnant three times in one year. The third try brought us our second daughter. I had told Joe if it didn't work out the third time our number one daughter was going to be an only child. Talk about a hormone rollercoaster! Yikes.

I'm sorry this happened to your nephew and his wife. It doesn't matter how early on this happens or how many children a person already has, it's still a time when one grieves the loss.

May 5th, 2015, 06:39 AM
Thoughts and prayers for the family at this terrible loss.

May 5th, 2015, 06:39 AM
I am so saddened to read this. Prayers being said for all concerned.

May 5th, 2015, 09:46 AM
Such sad news of their loss.

May 5th, 2015, 09:48 AM
Lifting you up in prayer for peace and comfort.

Simply Quilting
May 5th, 2015, 12:35 PM
So sorry for the loss. Lifting the family up in prayer.

May 5th, 2015, 01:04 PM
I am so sorry. This can be incredibly difficult to explain to children. My thoughts are with all of you.

May 5th, 2015, 02:46 PM
So sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

May 5th, 2015, 07:00 PM
So heartbreaking. Sending hugs for your family and prayers to sustain everyone.

May 5th, 2015, 07:24 PM
So sad........know that thoughts and prayers are with your family.

May 5th, 2015, 07:30 PM
So sad, sorry to hear this. Prayers to your family.

May 6th, 2015, 09:39 AM
Thank you all, for your kind words and prayers ... It means a lot to me to be able to come here when things go wrong, or when there is good news. We have such a caring community.

May 7th, 2015, 01:09 PM
Sandy, I am so very, very sorry for their loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. :icon_hug:

May 7th, 2015, 03:12 PM
So very sorry for your nephew and family. I've been there... I know how hard it is.

I hope that you're all able to find some comfort by leaning on God right now. Prayers!