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February 4th, 2015, 06:14 PM
Have you ever come to the end of yourself? I think I arrived at that point today but someone wisely reminded me that when we are in over our heads, it's under God's feet. I clung to that thought like a drowning person all afternoon.

I was finally put through to the ER that received my DD and after many transfers I was told they were still working on her. A couple hours later the phone rang and it was DD, barely able to speak. They began treating her the minute she entered the ER and gave her multiple breathing treatments, tests and a potassium IV. A team worked on her for over 3 hours. She was critically low on potassium again. Evidently when your body is struggling for air it pushes the potassium from your blood into the cells. A new pulmonary specialist has been called in and he will see her this afternoon. This doctor is considered to be the top gun in his field, so hopefully he will get to the bottom of her problem. They are holding her in the ER until they see if she needs to be transported to another facility after she sees the specialist. She's a healthy, normal 49 yo Mom of two and she has had good health all her life. All of a sudden she has to struggle to breathe. She has been down with "a bug" for over four months now and has seen countless doctors, specialists, had every test know to modern medicine and has ingested more steroids and other medicine than you could ever imagine.

Jeff is being released from the hospital tomorrow. Friday is his birthday. I had a meeting with a Release Planner today at our home. This took almost two hours and dragged on forever. For a week or two a Home Health physical therapist will come to us and then Jeff will transition to outpatient physical therapy. I will really have my hands full now.

Thank you so much for your prayers and well wishes. I don't know what I did for support before I became part of this group. Good people = Good Friends....thank you so much and please keep praying that my Daughter will finally get the right diagnosis and treatment. Christina is my only surviving child and the thought of losing her, even though she's a Christian, is something really hard for me to deal with. This morning she told me she thought today would be the day for her to leave this life. My heart almost stopped when she said that and told me she wanted me to be the one to tell her kids.

Thank you, thank you everyone....Love, Barb

February 4th, 2015, 06:20 PM
Wow Barb...what a day you have had!! (((((HUGE HUGS)))) coming your way. I sure hope this new specialist can get to the bottom of your DD's breathing issues...sounds so scarey. Make sure to take care of yourself when Jeff is home! xox

February 4th, 2015, 06:27 PM
This is heart wrenching. The only response can be prayerful tears. I do pray. Fall on God for peace and mercy and find peace in the prayers of others. We love you, Barb.

Sandy Navas
February 4th, 2015, 06:35 PM
Tearing at my heart, too - Barb, I wish so much that I could be there in some way to help you through everything. You know the saying about why God trusts you so much - the prayers are ongoing for all of you.

February 4th, 2015, 06:37 PM
Prayers continuing!

February 4th, 2015, 06:46 PM
I will continue to lift you and your loved ones in prayer. God is great and will see you all through this! hugs!!!

Claire OneStitchAtATime
February 4th, 2015, 06:52 PM
Oh Barb. Feeling for you.

February 4th, 2015, 06:56 PM
Oh Barb, I wish I could be more help to you. We are told that God doesn't give us more than we can handle, but it seems like He's testing your limits. I will continue praying for Christina, you, and Jeff. (((HUGS)))

Jean Sewing Machine
February 4th, 2015, 07:06 PM
I have been praying all day for Christine and Jeff and you! I hope things come under control quickly for your family and things start going right for you all!

February 4th, 2015, 07:42 PM

I'm thinking of you, Jeff and your daughter. I hope that things work out for the best. Please take care of yourself, you are the one who is going to be doing the care-giving for a while.

February 4th, 2015, 07:56 PM

Simply Quilting
February 4th, 2015, 08:08 PM
Continuing to pray.

February 4th, 2015, 08:17 PM
Barb, you've been handed more than your share to deal with. I will be, as others are, continuing to pray for Christina and Jeff . . . and that the worried mom and caregiver for Jeff doesn't wind up needing the care herself. Maybe there's a resource locally to you (hospital, church, etc) that can provide emotional/spiritual guidance to ease your stressful state. :icon_hug:

February 4th, 2015, 08:23 PM

What a heavy load you have been carrying. I'm praying for all three of you and will continue to do so. Take care of yourself so that you can take care of Jeff. How far does Christina live from you?

Prayerfully yours, Dolly

February 4th, 2015, 08:51 PM
Your right Barb... knowing all the wonderful people here that are always in our corners thinking and saying prayers is something very special... I'll be doing just that until I hear things are calmed down a bit... why is it that so many good people have so many challenges??? Who knows... just hang in there... your in our thoughts... Hugs, Barbara/GB

February 4th, 2015, 09:08 PM
Continued prayers from here, too. Hoping for a good outcome from the specialist.

Remember to breathe and lower your shoulders - it will help you deal with the stress. A few deep cleansing breaths can really help. Try to get some sleep tonight. Being a full time caregiver is stressful in the best situations and you have lots of other stuff going on. Wish there was more we could do for you. Hugs!

February 4th, 2015, 09:13 PM
My goodness Barb, you have had your share lately...I am praying for your daughter, Jeff and you everyday...

February 4th, 2015, 09:13 PM
Continuing to pray for you and your family.

February 4th, 2015, 09:36 PM
Prayers for you, jeff and christina. I can't imagine the stress load it is for you. Remember to take care of yourself!

February 4th, 2015, 09:37 PM
Praying for you, Jeff and your daughter. This is so much for one person bare, but I have no doubts that God will be by your side.

February 4th, 2015, 09:43 PM
Oh, Barb, I'm sending prayers and {{{{hugs}}}}}}.

February 4th, 2015, 09:50 PM
{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}} You, Jeff and Christina are in my prayers.

February 4th, 2015, 09:56 PM
Prayers for your family.

February 4th, 2015, 09:58 PM
Barb......I can't imagine what you day has been like. You all have been in my prayers. My heart hurt reading your update. Thankfully, Christina has the best doctor and hopefully can find & take care of the problem. Please remember that your forum friends around the country & the world are praying for your family.........lifting you in prayer.

Grandma Nan
February 4th, 2015, 10:13 PM
oh my land Barb. You are really up to your eyeballs right now. So glad you are able to lean on your forum friends and your faith. There is nothing worse than being far away when your kids are sick, no matter what age they are. You need to take care of yourself too. At least when you are home you can relax a bit better. Just look after the essentials and don't worry about details like housework. Prayers for you, Jeff and your daughter.

February 4th, 2015, 10:19 PM
Barb. I will continue to pray for you and for your family. Please take care of yourself as well. Hugs,

February 4th, 2015, 10:40 PM
Continued prayers for the three of you. We are all here for you.

Jean Marie
February 4th, 2015, 10:46 PM
Oh my, you have your hands full. Your husband may qualify for a cna twice a week to help with bathing. Take advantage of all insurance or Medicare has to offer. This will also give you a break. But you have to ask for these things. The Dr can write orders for this. Good luck and you're in my prayers.

February 4th, 2015, 10:50 PM
What a time you are having. I know you are able to get through this because of your faith in the Lord. I will certainly keep you in my thoughts and lift you and your family up in prayer. I am praying that your daughter's new doctor will find the answer and get proper treatment started ASAP.


Annette Ackley
February 4th, 2015, 10:52 PM
Prayers for you, Barb, and your family!!

Miss Sheri
February 5th, 2015, 01:42 AM
((((((((Barb)))))))! Hey sweetie, just remember to breathe. Prayers of faith are being offered from many of us, and kind and healing thoughts are flying your way. I'm praying for Christina and Jeff for healing and assistance, and for wisdom for the doctors, and that indescribable Peace that comes from above. Bless you, friend.

February 5th, 2015, 06:34 AM
Goodness, Barb. I'm in tears just reading your post. I really don't know what to say except that we're all praying for you and your family. We'll be waiting to hear from you regarding your daughter's situation. I'm glad things are progressing with Jeff. Try to stay calm. These stressors can really take their toll.

February 5th, 2015, 08:52 AM
Oh my goodness Barb, I can't even begin to imagine the stress and worry you must be going through. I'm sending big {{{HUGS}}} your way and of course many many prayers for healing and comfort for both Jeff and Christina, and peace and comfort for you sweet lady. I know it sounds impossible right now, but please don't forget to take care of yourself.

February 5th, 2015, 10:04 AM
Bless your heart!!! Praying for you and your family and your momma heart to be comforted from God.....

February 5th, 2015, 10:09 AM
Everyone else has already said it so eloquently, so I will just add some hugs.
{{{ HUGS }}}

February 5th, 2015, 10:51 AM
Oh Barb... praying here too.