When I bought my babylock the software came with it as a special deal they were having. You might want to look for something like that. But I agree you can't get away from the software. Do you have many shops you can call to ask if they are having a deal like that?
I purchased a new Babylock Ellisimo Gold 6 months ago from a dealer and it didn't come with software. I just ordered the Edit N Stitch 2.0 from Amazing Designs for $200.00 and am anxious to receive it.