In general, if I don't attend I don't send a gift. The exception is if it a close(niece/nephew) relative, then I would send a gift simply because it...
I am Married and I have 3 wonderful Daughters and 2 Grand-Girls that whom I love and Cherish! I (we) are "NEW" empty Nesters which is hard getting used to but enjoying it at the same time!!!! I love to Quilt, Machine Embroidery, and Appliqué!