The only way you will know if you like a group is to visit a meeting. Ours will let you visit...don't know if there is a limit to the number of visits or not. You can tell a lot from just one visit. You can be as involved in the group as you like and will likely get your money's worth if you join. Do you know anyone already in the group? I know it is hard to walk into a roomful of strangers...but try it...you might like it.