My kids are grown and moved out. We keep the grandkids for a couple of days every two weeks. Hubby is here though, and he likes to drive in to town to eat lunch everyday. I'm not complaining. Our life is like a vacation now. We just enjoy being together every day. I get a little sewing done, but I never have to rush anymore. Those days are coming for you all. The trouble is that it doesn't happen until you look up and realize, "What, I'm old!" Enjoy those kids and grandkids,and hubbies. Sew when you can and have fun.