Hi, Annika, some great suggestions, here! I will pray for you and your DD. Have you spoken to the leader of the organization she works with? That person may have some insights about your DD that would prove helpful.

One little trick that might help to re-orient her thinking, a bit: Every day (at mealtime is a great time, or in the car) ask her to tell you what the best thing that happened today is. Help her to see the good things in life, and encourage her to be thankful. You can even ensure that you have a thankful attitude. (Oh, I'm so glad to have a car that runs, that it's not raining today, etc.) Depression is no joke, but try to surround her with positive messages, not only about herself (as someone else pointed out, she may think you only love her because you're her mother) but also about life in general.
(((Annika))) Blessings, ~ Sally \0/